Here's how the man whose name is Chinedu chronicled his story;
Please help, I need advice, I am a very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation.
There is this girl I met in Lagos, she helped me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I asked her to marry me. Later she got pregnant. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and told me that one baba said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her.
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All these are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her alone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state Enugu to Lagos.
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September...Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage.
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that signed for me in the court.
I don't know what to do in this situation.
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me.
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age.
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this. And during this period we have been together she controls me alots and that make me sad.
There is this girl I met in Lagos, she helped me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.
I asked her to marry me. Later she got pregnant. She started disturbing me about marriage rights.
On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man. I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no.
A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and told me that one baba said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.
All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her.
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All these are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her alone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state Enugu to Lagos.
My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.
Court marriage 30th September...Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage.
We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that signed for me in the court.
I don't know what to do in this situation.
Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me.
Am 30 years while I don't know her real age.
We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this. And during this period we have been together she controls me alots and that make me sad.
She shout at me too. If she ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem. I don't know what to do.
- Chinedu
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